After telling my friends, some of them asked me "when did you find out?" or "how long have you known?". Those seemed like the strangest questions, as if they thought that you learned your sexuality by a letter in the mail or something.

I know right? Or it sounds like we got adopted or something and found out we are like some other race? How come they don't ask this question when I tell them "I'm Chinese" "when did you find out?" or "how long have you known?" LOL